Robust ThemeDec 09, 2019 2020-04-08 7:40
Are you Get, Set, Go ready? Go from feeling stuck in a rut to celebrating ‘50 shades of change’
What does it take to actually have what you want?
I want to share the ongoing story of my fabulous Conceive with Ease client Nina. She has completed two rounds of one-to-one coaching with me and it's so important to celebrate that although she hasn't had her ultimate result YET… which is to conceive and grow a healthy baby and give birth; she has made so many positive changes towards that eventual outcome, which I truly believe IS coming for her.
It is as important to celebrate the journey as reaching the destination. It is actually HOW we reach the destination…by acknowledging and giving thanks for the changes we HAVE mastered! This is just the same when you are on your fertility path for your family.
So this is an account of Nina’s Conceive with Ease journey so far, and is for any of you who have a desire that seems so far away from you - in fact it is worth reading and watching the video too if the very thing that you say you want the most you actually recognize you're also terrified of having! In fact, you just don't believe it is possible!
This is what was true with Nina- when we first started to work together even the thought of being pregnant was something that made her feel squeamish, she had issues surrounding her sexual enjoyment, work-life balance and the classic scenario of finding it difficult to be in her own head.
This affects so many women- the discomfort of dealing with one’s own thoughts, emotions AND physical body often leads to an addiction of some sort, in this case, over-exercising. It's ironic because we're taught that exercise is really good for us, but just like anything you do, the intention behind it will also govern what it's actually doing for you… often when we over exercise (I’m talking here of several times a week/possibly daily high impact exercise) what we're doing is seeking a temporary endorphin fix that makes us feel better…. but we're still stuck in an energy of super fast go go go. The total opposite to the slower-paced mummy baby nurturing we delight in being as a new Mumma.
We believe we must DO something to ‘achieve’, and in the world of doing, we are not being.
When you work with me, you will understand your power as a CoCreator of your reality, using the tools of RozyGlow so that your vibration is a match for what it is you say you want, if it's not a match you're never going to get it…
The beautiful thing about embodiment is your vibration is different and once you maintain that vibration at your different frequency for a sustained period of time that's when your outer environment can really start to reflect back to you what you want. You're also importantly giving the message to your physiology that you are safe to have what you want. Safe to grow your family with grace and ease.
This was the biggest issue for Nina- she needed to feel safe in her body, her relationship, in her work life and in her life in general. In order for Nina to feel safe to grow life and have something that terrifies her even though she wants it, she needed to feel that in every area of life she feels supported, which involved her also respecting her own boundaries. I really have to commend her commitment to the change because what we all do when things start to get tough is we doubt the decisions we're making and doubt ourselves, and that's when we start to take lots of steps back and erode the good work that we are doing well.
I'm so excited because I've seen this every time I work with someone… when you start seeing a change in one area of life that change will happen 360 affecting every area of your life. An upward trajectory to feeling safe to have what you want and even more along the way!
This includes a 20% pay rise whilst moving from contracting to an amazing permanent position and as she's getting settled into this role her partner has stepped up, because part of the story in all of this was that she was controlling everything (including controlling the finances) as part of her need to feel safe to expand their family unit.
“Since my teens, I have spent doing regular high-impact exercise, I've given this up without much difficulty. I now love time on my yoga mat at home instead this was never gonna happen but surprisingly to me despite the above my body image has improved and my body looks better before I am not so afraid of stillness five I've let go of my previous diet coke intake so she was seriously addicted to diet coke as she was with exercise and she's managed to drop that down now so that she enjoys it as a treat I have stopped taking IBS medication after 10 years without difficulty or effort”
This was essential to calm her nervous system which was working super high… when we're doing lots of exercise very often our progesterone levels will be affected and they will be lowered and this can actually affect our capacity to get pregnant in the first place. Anything to do with the digestive tract is also going to do with the nervous system therefore is going to affect fertility and conception and the ideal environment to welcome a baby to grow. Check out my video to hear Nina’s ‘50 shades change’. I am blown away to hear how many things she has actually noticed she has gone through and changed since she started working with me 11 months ago. It is really important to understand that we all need time to embed the changes that are taking place. One part of this is to integrate, and another part is to embody. In the time that you're working with me you are in the process of integrating and once you've integrated you get to truly embody what you desire and deserve. Only halfway through the year and I am so excited about all of these changes, she's made all the big changes she's needed to make and gone through that tunnel of change which is the thing that most of us resist doing in the first place. Now she's integrating all the changes she's getting ready to embody them and move into the next phase. This is the beautiful thing about the people I work with- the benefits I see that come about through doing this deeper work include your income increasing, your love life gets better, your body image improves, all these other things change even if you haven't quite got what you wanted yet.
Check out my video to hear Nina’s ‘50 shades change’. I am blown away to hear how many things she has actually noticed she has gone through and changed since she started working with me 11 months ago. It is really important to understand that we all need time to embed the changes that are taking place. One part of this is to integrate, and another part is to embody. In the time that you're working with me you are in the process of integrating and once you've integrated you get to truly embody what you desire and deserve. Only halfway through the year and I am so excited about all of these changes, she's made all the big changes she's needed to make and gone through that tunnel of change which is the thing that most of us resist doing in the first place.
Now she's integrating all the changes she's getting ready to embody them and move into the next phase. This is the beautiful thing about the people I work with- the benefits I see that come about through doing this deeper work include your income increasing, your love life gets better, your body image improves, all these other things change even if you haven't quite got what you wanted yet.
There are so many factors that come into actually having what you want that most of us are scared of having it because we don't know what to do afterwards, we become scared of losing it so the fear of success is often bigger than the fear of failure. Instead of HAVING what we want, we stay in the place of trying!
So if you are wanting something, please stop trying to get it…KNOW that you're on the way to receiving it…you are ACTUALLY in the process of receiving it.
Once you decide you are ready to make a commitment to taking a leap, this is when to get in touch with me.
Often it is the result of ‘another failed round of IVF’ or another period coming that has literally left you devastated on the bathroom floor. All that you have tried to do on your own, ISN’T getting you the results and you know ‘hoping’ is not quite the same as ‘maximising’ your chances of success.
My process really is one to guide you through every stage of what needs to happen to build the bridge from where you are to where you want to be. I bring my expertise in and I point the light into areas that you might not have thought about yet and we work on clearing your subconscious programming and resistance to having what you want NOW.
It might take one round of coaching, it might take two, it might take three, it might take four but you know whatever it takes is what is right. Because ultimately if you can see that your trajectory is going upwards and you are moving forward then there is absolutely no shame in having the support to get there. No one who is super successful got there on their own, absolutely everybody had help to get there… if you want to be an expert at something you learn from an expert J.
If you make a concentrated effort if you commit big time to what you want that's when you get your big-time results because you are fully invested heart, mind, wallet, body… whole shebang.
If you would like to take that first step, book your Breakthrough call with me ASAP. I typically have a waiting list between 1 and 3 months for my one-to-one work, and my group coaching happens four times a year so there are lots of ways you can connect with me and
it all starts with the RozyGlow Breakthrough call to check in with where you're at and where you want to be ….then we plan what's going to serve you to get there.
It is my absolute joy to share with you how you can succeed in your life and be successful in a MultiDimensional way… all areas of your life are approached as we address the fear-based paradigm of the 3rd dimension and how this affects you, the dreamlike state of the 4th dimension and where you still give your power away to outside authority. This leads us to the CoCreating state which is where it gets really exciting, and we can step into really claiming our power as CoCreators of our reality in the 5th-dimensional state. Learning to transverse these dimensions on this earthly plane is what I help you to do and it is a wonderful and magical way of living.
It is also what is necessary in order to feel safe to bring in the high-frequency souls I refer to as ‘star seeds’: they need evolved parents, who can be sensitive to their needs and help them to grow up to be well rounded, conscious adults who are not so full of inherited trauma that they recreate old bloodline stories again and again…this is the story of EVERY couple I have worked with who haven’t been able to Conceive with Ease and the reason they come to me in the first place.
More celebrations! You may be intrigued to know that since receiving Nina’s testimonial she went to have tests to see how she is ovulating (one of her F.E.A.R.S. was that there is something intrinsically wrong with her that no one knows about) and according to the fertility specialist…she ‘could not be more impressively ovulating’….yeah baby! All over that!
Book your Breakthrough call with me ASAP… let's get you seeing through eyes of love and loving what you see, trusting that life really does love you and wants you to be happy.